What's the Deal with Ron Collins' Creepy Tinder-Profile Picture?

Previously in RonCollinsFacts, we talked about the creepy public bathroom selfie Ron Collins posted to Facebook. It has been three and a half weeks since Ron wrote that he was "done talking" about martial artist Don Roley. He said, in that blog, that he was going to travel to Colorado to confront Don Roley and fight him. As this is posted, Collins is still in West Virginia and hasn’t made any effort to travel.

Of course, he says it will happen at some point. But he has made similar claims about the lawsuit he threatened, and 8 months later no one has been served with any papers. It can be expected that Collins will scream and rant about how he is going to go fight Roley for as long as he thinks he can milk it for, but in the end find an excuse to not show up.

Instead of going to Colorado, Collins has been very busy trying to attack Roley on the internet. One of the latest tactics is to try to convince people that Roley is somehow sexually abusing his children. No one is taking him seriously. Looking over what he writes. His theory only makes sense if you are a mental patient who refuses to take his medication.

The great irony of course is that it is Collins who has a legal record involving young girls. He was convicted of contributing to delinquency of a minor. In court papers made available by Ron Collins himself, it was alleged that he tried to ply an underage girl with liquor and possibly pills (Collins disputes this last point, to the best of our knowledge). Some years later, Collins was arrested for having child pornography on his computer -- material that he did not deny was there. No, rather than say it never happened, he claimed a relative was responsible for downloading the material to his computer. The situation escalated to the point that Ron was arrested for making "terroristic threats" against a police officer and court officials involved in the matter. Collins spent several months in jail and then the authorities, rather than pursue the various issues for which he had been arrested, chose to send him to a mental hospital (despite his protestations that he was sane and could stand trial) for treatment. Ultimately, he was released, apparently in an agreement with authorities there that he take his medication and stay out of trouble. Looking at the obsessive nature of his attacks, taking hours every day to write, it looks like Collins may be off his meds (whatever they are).

Collins has previously claimed that it was the underage girls who originally came onto HIM at the mall. This is clearly delusional, as even when he was younger, thinner, and had hair, he was hardly the sort of person women would find attractive. This is a screen shot from Ashida Kim's old forum where Collins (posting as "Draven Azropht," the same name he gave to the protagonist of his poorly written fantasy novel, "The Brass Keep") told his bizarre version of events:

"Here is the story. I met these girls when I was working at the mall. They are both like 13, their parents would drop them off for like 6 to 12 hours during the summer, everyday they where out of school. One of these girls, throws herself at any man who will talk to her & decided she wanted me..."

Why would Collins make such creepy statements about young girls? Possibly for the same reason that he would hang around in public bathrooms taking pictures of himself sucking in his gut. In our opinion, someone like this targets younger girls because he has no chance with a real woman his own age. To state the obvious, Collins is not what real women look for.

In terms of his looks, he has these things going against him:

• He is short at only 5'4" according to his booking photo.
• He is horribly fat, soft, and out of shape.
• In his thirties, he has a very embarrassing bald spot that presents in an unusual shape -- a shape that makes his head look like the male sexual organ.
• In all his photos he appears to be wearing one of perhaps only three shirts. It seems as though he is homeless, or living so close to the edge of the poverty line that he is functionally homeless. We cannot imagine someone in those circumstances bathes regularly or even often, which probably means he smells of body odor.
• He is constantly disheveled, from his facial hair to what is left of the hair on his head to his general appearance. He presents as a homeless person even if he is not one.

Now, it is a fact that adult women gauge the attractiveness of a potential sexual partner based on material and physical factors. That means that Ron Collins has these factors against him that have nothing to do with his appearance:

• He is apparently unable to hold a job and lives of some kind of government assistance.
• He spent time involuntarily in a mental institution, William Sharpe Hospital.
• He is, by all accounts (such as in the Beckley, West Virginia Topix forums) a local laughingstock, the type of "character" whom everybody seems to know about and whom nobody takes very seriously.

In terms of Collins' personality, he has these strikes against him:

• Court documentation that Collins provided publicly indicates that a court-appointed psychologist evaluated Collins, determining him to be a "malignant narcissist" who suffers from "irrational grandiosity" and who is also bipolar.
• Collins is a bully and a coward, who has repeatedly made threats online and who attacks the families of those people with whom he is angry.
• Collins backs down from confrontations with adult men, such as Don Roley, but has shown a willingness to bully those he thinks are weaker than he is. He was charged with stalking and assault of a young girl in West Virginia, for example. While the court was not able to secure a conviction, a videotape of Collins confronting the girl in a Wal-Mart was apparently introduced into evidence -- and the behavior Collins exhibited was considered compelling enough by the prosecution that they included it.

There are plenty of other reasons that Ron Collins might not be the sort of person a woman finds attractive, but it should be obvious from what he, himself has said publicly that he has little chance of ever achieving a relationship with a real woman. He appears desperately to want one, going so far as to refer to a "girlfriend" who, to the best we can determine, does not exist. He is a sad little man who will probably live out his days alone and unloved. At 37 years old, he has never been married, never had children, and has no prospects for romance. He has accomplished nothing, contributed nothing to the world, and has no friends of any substance. (As evidence of that, Collins tried for a month to raise funds through a crowdfunding site to establish a martial arts school. His friends on social media contributed exactly zero dollars to the effort and Ron was reduced to claiming the whole thing was "bait" in some imaginary plot he supposedly concocted.)

Young girls are easier to manipulate than grown women. Women of legal age who are still teenagers fall into this category, too. A man who is afraid of women his own age, or simply cannot establish relationships with them, naturally gravitates to the very young. This may explain Collins' conviction for Contributing to the Delinquency of a Minor, and it may explain the arrest for allegedly downloading child pornography. We can only speculate as to why those charges did not move forward, but we do know that there is a meticulous standard of evidence that must be met to prosecute a crime like that.

Collins loves to show off on the internet. He is very open about anything he thinks can impress others. When you consider this, the lack of any mention, photo or anything else that would indicate that he had a love in his life is proof enough that he has none. With a person like Collins, the second any woman gave him any attention he would be posting things about her 24/7. But that is not the case. Why, then, has he mentioned a girlfriend from time to time in the total absence of any real woman giving him the time of day?

One of the reasons may be that Collins is engaged in some very unsavory behavior. Don Roley seems to have really irritated Collins with a recent blog exposing what appears to be an attempt by Collins to "groom" a young girl. On social media, Collins posted about supposedly trying to help a young woman. In Collins' own words on social media,

I had the pleasure of knowing that I was able to talk to a child, who went through hell suffer from drug addiction herself, suffering from an abusive father and step father…

If God blesses me and I win my lawsuit against the State. I am going to bless others, beginning with a non-profit organization to help troubled teens out of poverty and toxic environment. A martial arts half way half house, to train leaders and to have those leaders attend college to become lawyers to work for another non-profit dealing with only police abuse cases as part of violations of a civil rights. Some of these kids will be running similar halfway houses in other parts of the state and other states. I will get other martial artists of other systems involved as well...

And that child I told this to... Oh she, her mother and father are going to help to help other families struggling with addiction and the associated problems attached with addiction.

They are not getting back togather but they are gonna lead the way for for daughter. There daughter is gonna help me with a program for other kids who have been sexually abused. Instead of feeling like they are being judged by talking to a councilor, they will be sharing stories... Helping each other heal. And help not just each other heal but other kids as well as the program spreads and know their are people who understand and can help them cope.

As such I am working on a program for parents and kids to deal with spotting sex abusers and dealing with the grooming behavior for these types. When dealing with said abused children much of our "martial arts" training with be based on a Christian Karate Program and yes scripture will be part of the training. Call it Christian Philosophy. However, that is my program and I ask each instructor reading this to develop their own program. This isn't just about me but our faith in whatever higher power ypu claim and helping people help themselves.

Since leaving jail and the mental hospital a couple of years ago, Collins has repeatedly gone to the well of Christianity in an attempt to make himself look better. Despite this appeal to "God," looking at the total of what Collins wrote is very disturbing. A person involved in education, trained in what to look for regarding the warning signs of child grooming, read that passage and commented to this effect:

I work in education. and the whole process he is describing is by the book grooming. I can't count how many hours i've spent in meetings learning to spot these specific behaviors. Especially given the past he has regarding this exact issue I find that post extremely alarming and raises more than a few red flags... Even if he had no history of [alleged] sexual misconduct, that post would still gain my attention. 

Given his history, that post is terrifying me, especially because most abusers don't believe they are abusers. They justify their behaviors and excuse themselves as an exception to the rule. (i.e... All the stuff about some children having gone through hell or lived through experiences many adults haven't.) What he's basically doing is creating a scenario in his head where this child is not a child. That is my fear. With that being said, i'm not a psychologist but his post, in conjunction with his documented history [of Contributing to the Delinquency of a Minor] are very troublesome.

Taking the above into account, combined with the lack of evidence Collins can point to for his accusations, it would appear that the recent attempts to portray Roley as a sexual abuser is a projection of his own darkest desires. Collins of course hates Roley for many reasons, but one of the biggest is the recent blog in which Roley lays out all the comments that are so indicative of someone grooming another young victim for sexual abuse.

We can perhaps expect more attempts by Collins to try to make this accusation stick. In the meantime, he will continue to post elaborate rationalizations for why Roley and all others who have confronted and humiliated him are, in Collins' mind, ducking him. The reality is this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5vLJB8xzX20

• Ron Collins had the chance to spar Don Roley in Kentucky, was invited to do so, and instead ran away.
• Ron Collins had the chance to spar another martial artist in Florida, was invited to do so, and instead ran away.
• All the elaborate rationalizations Ron spins now, and the bizarre and disgusting accusations he is making, are projection and attempts to obfuscate the reality of what has happened.

Ron Collins is not a martial artist. He is not a martial arts teacher. He holds no legitimate rank in any recognized martial arts system. He has no school. He has no actual students. He holds no job. He has few friends. He is, in short, the sort of person no one could love -- and whom no one would even want to spend time around.

This may explain why he's been reduced to taking pictures with his shirt up in public bathrooms... but we can only guess.